Teenage Heartbreaks

I am not very good at this because I have never been in a relationship. But whenever my friends ask for advice, I can really help them. I don't know why so, here it goes..

Heartbreaks are normal. This is just any problem that teenagers encounter. It's part of loving someone. Love is a beautiful thing. But if you don't want to get really hurt or really affected, you shouldn't love a person so much. I mean like, don't get so serious & don't get too committed to the relationship if you don't wanna get hurt so badly. The more you take everything seriously, the more pain you'll receive in the break-up. Don't give all to your partner if you don't want to lose a lot. There are some who thinks that their lives are ruined after break-ups, but you shouldn't think that way. There are also some who feels like they've been crushed and their hearts were broken into pieces. there are also some who are afraid to love again after horrible break-ups. no, don't keep your hearts closed. you need to stand up and you need to learn to love again. Getting hurt is part of loving and part of any other relationships. There are so much better people for you out there. You are still so young. Also, don't blame yourself and don't hate yourself when you're in pain. Because loving is not a wrong thing. You just fell out of love and the next day, you feel a lot butterflies in your stomach. But it's not forever and there is always an end to it. When you're a teenager, nothing and no one lasts forever. This is reality and we gotta face it. To think about it, we shouldn't be even worrying about these things cause we have so much important things to focus and we are still so young.

If you’re broken, do your best to get over that person in a right way. If the relationship didn't last, it simply means that both of you are not meant for each other. You just have to move on and let go. Spend more time with your close friends. In that way, you'll have a reason to smile again. Time will come that you can be in a right relationship with the right person. The ones who could make you feel so special. Don't use another person to forget about your past. That is a wrong way of moving on. Don't do anything stupid after the break-up. If possible, just cry it all out. You just have to stay strong and wait for that day to come that you won't feel anything about your ex. The day that you've completely moved on and the time when you can be you again. It's okay, its not your fault, all you did was to love and all you wanted to feel is to be loved back. You need to keep in mind that you deserve someone better.

"When you're young everything feels like the end of the world. But it's not; it's just the beginning. You might have to meet a few more jerks, but one day you're gonna meet a boy who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Like the sun rises and sets with you."

 - 17 Again (movie)

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